Attract Women, Pick Up Women, How to get a Girlfriend

When trying to pick up girls guys will do many things wrong initially.  There are, however, a couple things that keep coming up that I see over and over again.  We’re going to cover those 3 problems and how you can go about fixing, or even better, avoiding them all together.

I just want to get girls you say to yourself.  The fact of the matter is it’s simple, but most guys make it more difficult then it has to be.  They go and learn all these elaborate lines and techniques just searching for reaction.  They become value taking and a button pusher just trying to get a reaction.

So you really want to know how to attract girls?  Let me start off by telling you that although there are many different methods, techniques and schools of thought, almost all of them have the same underlying principles.

These days people are spending a lot of time designing pickup methods, “revolutionary” pickup systems, and intricate psychological models of attraction, which is fine and all. I don’t discourage anyone from exploring the map.

At what time are women the most open to meeting a guy? When they least expect it. Call it cynicism, being jaded, or general human suspicion, but women are most on guard specifically when they know men are on the hunt. Of course, you can get lucky on a Saturday night in a crowded downtown bar, but the odds are against you. Unless you're particularly good-looking, stylish, funny or charming, you're not going to "out-compete" the other guys in line.

One of the biggest and most commonly asked questions that men ever ask me is: How can I be more successful at approaching women?  I’ve got some good news for you…the answer is a LOT simpler then you actually think!

What is the biggest “key” factor there is when it comes to approaching and attracting beautiful women?  Is it looks?  Nope.  Is it income?  No.  Is it age?  Not even close.  The biggest factor there is without a doubt is communication.

I have CODIFIED street-walkups on moving targets, and can now PU moving targets with extremely HIGH HIGH consistency.

I have worked it into 4 main areas:

A few nights ago, I went barhopping with a friend of mine. We both talked to truck loads of women and used basically the same material on them. But by the end of the night my friend’s results were so bad he felt blessed with an unlikable self.

Now when it comes to the idea that "if a girl disrespects me I'll NEXT her", that isn't my frame at all. To me, you can't NEXT a girl who you haven't slept with.

Let’s take a journey back a few years to the old me. Before I could get pretty much any woman I wanted, before I went to the top clubs and got VIP treatment without spending any money, before I had too many women and too many friends to make time for any more, before it became so easy that I never really needed to go out “Sarging” and still have the hottest women fancy me. Before Gambler, there was Richard La Ruina, the guy that sat in his house for up to a week at a time, had one friend who he saw about once every two weeks, lived with his mum, and had only kissed two girls.

First I want to say that I am sorry for not posting anything in such a long time. I was long thinking about publishing this post because it is somehow evil. It gives you an overview over the tools to attract a person that is in a relationship and to somehow manipulate her to be turned her away from her boyfriend.

Mixing and matching V, A, C, Q, S.

Some basic often asked questions from the scene are:

Down & Dirty Psychology For Piquing Any Woman's Interest

Many a man uses his whole range of tricks in his proverbial bag to pique a beautiful baby’s interest.

If you listen to a group of attractive, single women talking alone over dinner or drinks, the topic will always turn to MEN.

ATTENTION "NICE GUYS":

If you are a "nice guy" who never seems to be able to attract HOT women, or you have attractive female friends who always seem to say, "He's really wonderful, but I just like him as a FRIEND", then this could possibly be the single most important thing you ever read in your entire life.

I've been teaching men how to become more successful with women and dating for a several years now... and one "problem scenario" just keeps coming up OVER AND OVER... and OVER
and OVER and OVER again...

I get a lot of guys who write in to ask me for dating advice on how to act around women. Many of those questions focus on the first meeting or the first date.

I thought I'd devote one entire newsletter to a concept that I feel is IMPERATIVE to understand if you're wondering how to behave around a woman you've just met.

A MISTAKE ALMOST EVERY GUY MAKES

There are really two very different (and important) aspects to the "conversations with women" topic:

1. The HOW.

2. The WHAT.

Standing at the magazine rack thumbing through Cosmo, she has the most beautiful face you've ever seen. Her hair is silky brown. Her skin looks so radiant and so incredibly soft. You would be on top of the world if you could pick this girl up.

You feel the fear deep in your gut.