Using humor
to pick up women is one of the most underutilized techniques today. Humor can
help you and a handful of ways including making opening easier, avoiding
awkward pauses and building an immense level of attraction.
Another
group of girls… another try… same result.If picking up women has been a real challenge lately bare with me – we’re
going to be sorting out a few kinks.
So you're on a first date with a girl, what on earth do you talk about? Most guys can sit back and shoot the shit with their friends for hours but when it comes to talking to a woman they're attracted to, for some reason things change.
Are you tired of girls only liking you as a friend? What I am about to tell you will enable you to get any girl to like you - regardless of your age, looks or experience with women. Let me ask you a question. Why do most guys fall into the trap of becoming friends with a girl? It's because they don't know how to properly spark attraction.
Dating and meeting new women
can be frusterating. If you haven't had succcess with women lately
trying to attract a women, not to mention an attractive women can be
like trying to bench press 405 on your first ever trip to the gym.
Really understanding what I am about to share with you will help you
change your perspective when bringing new women into your life.
When trying to pick up girls
guys will do many things wrong initially.There are, however, a couple things that keep coming up that I see over and
over again.We’re going to cover those 3
problems and how you can go about fixing, or even better, avoiding them all
together.
I
just want to get girls you say to yourself.The fact of the matter is it’s simple, but most guys make it more
difficult then it has to be.They go and
learn all these elaborate lines and techniques just searching for reaction.They become value taking and a button pusher
just trying to get a reaction.
So
you really want to know how to attract girls?Let me start off by telling you that although there are many different
methods, techniques and schools of thought, almost all of them have the same
underlying principles.
These
days people are spending a lot of time designing pickup methods, “revolutionary”
pickup systems, and intricate psychological models of attraction, which is fine
and all. I don’t discourage anyone from exploring the map.
At what time are women the most open to meeting
a guy? When they least expect it. Call it cynicism, being jaded, or general
human suspicion, but women are most on guard specifically when they know men
are on the hunt. Of course, you can get lucky on a Saturday night in a crowded
downtown bar, but the odds are against you. Unless you're particularly
good-looking, stylish, funny or charming, you're not going to
"out-compete" the other guys in line.
One of the biggest and most commonly asked
questions that men ever ask me is: How can I be more successful at approaching
women? I’ve got some good news for you…the answer is a LOT simpler then you
actually think!
What is the biggest “key” factor there is when it comes to approaching
and attracting beautiful women? Is it looks? Nope. Is it income?
No. Is it age? Not even close. The biggest factor there is without a
doubt is communication.
A few nights ago, I went barhopping with a friend of mine. We both
talked to truck loads of women and used basically the same material
on them. But by the end of the night my friend’s results were so bad he
felt blessed with an unlikable self.
Now when it comes to the idea that "if a girl disrespects me I'll NEXT
her", that isn't my frame at all. To me, you can't NEXT a girl who you
haven't slept with.
Let’s take a journey back a few years to the old me. Before I could get
pretty much any woman I wanted, before I went to the top clubs and got
VIP treatment without spending any money, before I had too many women
and too many friends to make time for any more, before it became so
easy that I never really needed to go out “Sarging” and still have the
hottest women fancy me. Before Gambler, there was Richard La Ruina, the
guy that sat in his house for up to a week at a time, had one friend
who he saw about once every two weeks, lived with his mum, and had only
kissed two girls.
First I want to say that I am sorry for not posting anything in such a
long time. I was long thinking about publishing this post because it is
somehow evil. It gives you an overview over the tools to attract a
person that is in a relationship and to somehow manipulate her to be
turned her away from her boyfriend.