There are really two very different (and important) aspects to the "conversations with women" topic:
1. The HOW.
2. The WHAT.
"THE
HOW..."
Most
guys want to know "what to talk about" with women.
It
only makes sense that you should talk about things that women are interested
in... right?
Well...
partially.
It
is actually FAR MORE IMPORTANT to talk about whatever topic you're talking
about in the RIGHT WAY.
In
other words, if you don't know HOW to carry on a conversation that creates
ATTRACTION, then it really won't matter WHAT you talk about... because the
woman you're talking to won't FEEL anything towards you.
The
HOW of conversation includes (but, is not limited to):
-
Your body language
-
Eye contact
-
The Cocky & Funny style of communicating
-
Flirting
-
Sending mixed messages
-
Directing the conversation
-
Dealing with common questions and topics
...and
many other things.
My
point is that if you're running into a lot of "uncomfortable
silences", nervousness, and other usual challenges, then you most likely
need to get the HOW handled before the WHAT.
"THE
WHAT..."
With
that said, there are several topics that are GREAT to discuss with women.
But
instead of just giving them to you, I want you to do yourself a favor and THINK
for a minute.
What
topics do women PAY to hear about?
Hint:
Cosmo magazine, romance novels, soap operas, nighttime dramas, the fashion
channel... etc.
If
you think about it, the answer to this question is rather apparent.
For
whatever reason, WOMEN tend to LOVE:
-
Drama
-
Conflict
-
Romance
-
Famous people and their lives
So...
it's really quite easy to enjoy a conversation with a woman about these topics.
Here
are a few ideas:
1.
Play amateur psychologist to the stars.
Talk
about how someone famous is doing something really dim-witted, then
psycho-analyze them.
Actors,
rock stars and famous sports figures just LOVE to do wild things... cheat on
their spouses... and then say "I didn't do it".
These
situations are BEGGING to be picked apart with a fine-toothed, critical, funny,
sarcastic mind.
2.
Find an interesting looking group of people and guess what's going on.
Look
around you, and find a couple sitting at a table that looks like they're on
their first date.
Then,
start making fun of how the guy is acting, how he's dressed, his posture, or
whatever. Talk about how the woman is thinking that he's a dork and how he's
not getting any, no matter how many compliments he gives her.
Analyzing
what's going on with a close group of others is big fun, and women love it.
NOTE:
One of the best ways to do this is to talk about the BODY LANGUAGE of the
people around you... and comment on what it means.
3.
Make fun of someone famous.
Talk
about how a super model is too skinny, or how Ben Affleck can only date women
named Jennifer.
All
you have to do is read a few gossip magazines to get all kinds of great stuff
to make fun of.
It's
fun, it's funny, and it's a great way to talk like you're all that.
4.
Talk about other people's love lives.
Talk
about the problems that others are going through when it comes to love and
romance, then volunteer absolutely ridiculous theories about what's going on.
Mention
a friend you had who broke up with his girlfriend because she gained weight,
then after you've told the story, make up a random theory about how women who
gain weight are actually lesbians.
But,
make sure it's funny, whatever you concoct.
...I
think you "feel me".
The
point here is that women are NATURALLY captivated and drawn to certain
topics... so USE THEM.
The
REAL benefit of talking to women about topics that really interest them is that
you can USE ALL THE OTHER IDEAS THAT YOU'RE LEARNING while you're talking!
You
can AMPLIFY THE ATTRACTION as the conversation goes on... as long as you know
what else to do as you talk.
Oh,
by the way...
Topics
to avoid: Rape, kidnapping, stalking, death, chess, computers, comic books,
Star Wars and your secret love: wrestling.
NEVER
talk about topics that might really freak a woman out, or topics that make you
look like the biggest loser alive, especially in the beginning.
You'll
create BAD VIBES that will make any attraction that you've created INSTANTLY vanish.
Others
to really avoid include talking negatively about yourself, talking about how
desperate you are or how long it's been since you've been on a date, asking if
she likes you or if you're her "type"... and any other WUSS-BAG topic
that makes you look unconfident and needy.
Remember,
the key to success with women is creating a powerful emotional ATTRACTION
between you and her.
If
you don't know how to do this, then NOTHING you do is going to help you very
much.
If
you DO know how and why women feel ATTRACTION for men, then almost ANYTHING you
do or talk about can amplify it.
And if you'd like to get the basics of how ATTRACTION works, plus a good set of
tools to use for meeting and dating women, then go download my eBook "Double
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