One
of the biggest and most commonly asked questions that men ever ask me is: How
can I be more successful at approaching women? I’ve got some good news
for you…the answer is a LOT simpler then you actually think!
The best way to boost your chances of having a successful “approach” when
approaching women is to make an AMAZING first impression. First
impressions usually happen within the first 30 seconds of meeting someone and
can last as long as 2 minutes. After this window is over, your “first
impression” chance is gone and it will take a real bit of work to change the
persons opinion. That’s why it’s important to nail a great first
impression each and every time.
How does one do this though? When it comes to making a great first
impression with women, there are 3 main things you need to concentrate on above
all other…
Be Sociable
Naturally,
if you want to be successful at meeting women then you need to be sociable.
You don’t want to shy away from the conversation. If you approach a woman
and you’re hesitant to talk when it’s your turn or if you try to avoid talking
then you will look like a very unsociable person who isn’t very fun. However,
if you approach women and you know how to keep a conversation going, and you
know how to make the conversation fun then you will always be remembered for
having that ability.
Great Body
Language
It’s
very important to have solid body language when approaching women. Having
weak body language will instantly tell the woman that you are nervous, anxious,
or socially awkward. You want to have “open” body language, body language
that says I’m comfortable with myself and my environment. You can do this
by keeping your hands out of your pockets, hands at your sides, keeping your
shoulders and head back, etc. You want to have good back posture as well,
which means you don't want to walk slouched over with your head looking
torwards the ground!
Use Comedy
You
don’t want to seem like a boring person right off of the bat. You want to
introduce comedy as soon as possible. The best possible way is to open to
the woman in a slightly off-the-wall comment that is funny and will get a great
response. If you can get them to laugh as soon as you meet them, then you
can count yourself as practically golden because they will always remember you
(because of the first impression) as a very funny guy.
Having a great first impression with women is key for nailing the attraction
early on when building rapport. If you build a great impression that says
“I’m a fun guy who is comfortable with himself” then you will make her feel a
lot more relaxed around you. On the flipside, if you give the impression
that you are in a bad mood or that you are uncomfortable, she will in turn feel
uncomfortable about you.
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