How to Attract Girls (Dating 101)

So you really want to know how to attract girls?  Let me start off by telling you that although there are many different methods, techniques and schools of thought, almost all of them have the same underlying principles.

Body Language

Firstly, you must be confident about yourself and have laid back, but dominant body language.  Attractive girls will notice instantly whether or not you are a confident secure guy or a, well, wuss.

Demonstrate confident body language by:

Keeping your head up while your walking

Taking up lot’s of space while sitting

Keeping eye contact when you first meet a woman

Acting relaxed and unaffected by what’s going on

These are just a few of the things you should be aware of if you’re not currently doing them.  Now, in order to get into a conversation with somebody you haven’t met before you’re going to need to use an opener.

Conversation Starter

No matter what method of attracting girls you’re looking at, you have to initiate the conversation somehow and this is commonly called the opener.

There are different ways to open, different strategies, and not one specific opener will work for everyone.  This is where time out in the field will help you discover what works best for you.

Keep in mind, it really doesn’t matter what you say (as long is it’s not completely retarded), as long as you stay confident and cool with good body language you will find people more open to staying and talking with you.

What to Talk About

So you’ve opened successfully, now what?  In order to attract girls you are going to have to be interesting and entertaining (not in a clown way).  Now don’t go out of your way to try and please people, have fun because you’re a fun person and you’re doing it to entertain yourself.  If you’re having fun – they will too.

It’s always good to be prepared, having a routine or two in your head to create attraction and have fun will surely be of benefit.  “Hey guys, have you ever played fuck, merry, kill?”.

Closing

You can kiss close, you can number close, you can walk away with nothing.  It’s really up to you.

My personal favorite for getting the number is simply saying:

We’ll, you seem like an interesting person

*hands them the phone* - after they’ve put in their number

I’ll probably message you later, but don’t hold your breath :)

That’s it, closing doesn’t have to be difficult – get the digits and go.

So, if your still asking about how to attract girls after you’ve finished reading this article – read it twice – then don’t do anymore reading for a week. Spend your time out meeting people, it’s much more effective.