How to Get Girls – The Underlying Principles

I just want to get girls you say to yourself.  The fact of the matter is it’s simple, but most guys make it more difficult then it has to be.  They go and learn all these elaborate lines and techniques just searching for reaction.  They become value taking and a button pusher just trying to get a reaction.

I do not dislike routines and techniques – I think it’s a great way to start out, but here’s the kicker: You must understand the reason why they work.

You can walk up to a group of girls open and run a story/routine – it gets a laugh.  Do you know why it got a laugh though?  If you understand the underlying principles behind why it works, you will not be limited to just scripted material.  You can apply the formula to your own experience and start to develop your own material.

How to get girls principle #1: Never seek a reaction from girls.

Some scripted material comes off extremely reaction seeking.  QUIT IT.  So you said something funny, first do not laugh at your own jokes.  Second don’t pause after a punch line or a cocky statement or whatever you’re using – move on quickly.  Do not give them a chance to respond to it.  Boom, you’re onto another topic already.

How to get girls principle #2: Showcase your personality – but don’t blatantly brag.

You may just have a couple minutes to make an impression before she gets pulled away by her friends.  The question “what do you do” usually comes up.  Here’s where you can take advantage of that and tell an interesting story about something you are really passionate about.  Don’t tell her you’re software designer, that’s boring and she doesn’t care.  Tell her you ride motorcycles for Ducati on the weekend.  Tell her about how you just had to pull someone off the track before they got run over by bikes going 150 mph. 

How to get girls principle #3: Escalate.

You may have “now place hand on lower back” going through your mind as your talking to her, but why are you touching her?  Touch is absolutely necessary in order for her to get comfortable and sexual around you.  The longer you leave it the weirder it will get.  You touch because it’s human nature and you’re a hands on guy; not because the book told you to place hand on lower back.  If you come in hi fiving her and others, you grab and squeeze one of the girls – she will not be creeped out when you try and kiss her – it’s that simple.