Picking Up Women: The Real Truth

These days people are spending a lot of time designing pickup methods, “revolutionary” pickup systems, and intricate psychological models of attraction, which is fine and all. I don’t discourage anyone from exploring the map.

You can be a great philosopher, you can mentally figure out many things, you can create techniques and systems all with very rational, consistent reasoning.

It will appear like a system of the truth. But it’s not the truth. These models have been contrived by your mind. They’ve been taken from other people.

On the other hand, an experience, a real experience in the field which you’ve seen with your own eyes, touched with you own hands, been there in your own body, which has been exposed to you… it is your authentic experience, an authentic truth. You have come to experience reality, you have come to see the truth of pick up itself.

Reality is in every moment original. You cannot plan it, you cannot map it in every detail, you cannot preplan every possibility of it. Every new moment is as no other moment that came before it. It is absolutely fresh and new and you have to live it to experience it. There is no other way of knowing it.

For example, a blind man can think about colors like the color blue. He can write research papers about blue, how the light spectrum is reflected and bounces off the eye to create the illusion of blue in the human brain. He can give great speeches write great passages about the wavelength of the light that produces the color blue. But the blind man still doesn’t know what blue is. He has no eyes to see it.

Similarly, the only way to know sex is to have sex, the only way to know skydiving is to start skydiving, the only way to know skiing is to ski. And the only way to know the party is to live the party.

It’s your style, your over planning, your attraction systems that make it unreal. But if you live it, if you live experience to the fullest, you’ll be able to come to know and understand what had been unthinkable by your methods and plans and systems.

In short what I’m saying, the field is king. Don’t be stuck in front of the computer all day or reading forum posts or articles, go out and become one with the party.