The majority of men have
such appalling body language that simply by learning a few secrets, you can immediately
stand out from the crowd. Every man can become more attractive; body language
is one of the most important for boosting your attractiveness, and making a
better first impression. So what can you do starting right now?
1.
Plant yourself when standing still.
Put your feet slightly wider apart than is natural, don’t shift your weight.
Notice how your feet feel planted. You can stay like this for long periods of
time. This is how martial artists stand, it is a solid base.
2. Do not fidget, fiddle, or touch face.
What do you normally do with your hands? Twitching and fidgeting is extremely
unattractive, look around and see it in other people. It makes you look uneasy.
Keep your hands by your sides. Place the thumb on the index and middle fingers,
this removes the natural need for the fingers to constantly be moving around.
3. Don’t look down.
Keep your head up. If you need to look away, look up, never look down, it’s a
sign of weakness and also looks uninviting. You can observe this in others.
Looking down even has been proven to have a negative effect on your mental
state.
4. Make slow head movements.
High status males everywhere, on film, in business, and in your social circle
have certain things in common. One of which is slow, smooth movements. Look
around slowly and smoothly, don’t dart around and jolt your head around like
you have been drinking espressos all day long. Think smooth, think James Bond.
James Bond has very attractive body language, and smoothness and lack of
fidgety movements are the main elements.
5. Walk slowly and smoothly.
This is more high-status behaviour. By being smooth and comfortable you give
off a sense of quiet confidence. You stand out from the people rushing around.
In a bar or club, slow it down even more, you will stand out, in a good way.
6. Hold your drink by your side.
When you have a drink, hold it by your side. It is a blocking action to hold a
drink in front of your chest.
Do these things and you will make a better first impression and stand out from
the other men in a room. If you are ever internally uncomfortable, you can
still appear confident and composed by following the above rules.
This is just one aspect you
need to worry about. There’s many other things you need to remember to be
successful, find out more…
