Attract Women, Pick Up Women, How to get a Girlfriend

A lot of guys get uneasy at the idea of meeting an eye-catching woman because they don't know what to expect. That is due to a lack of practice.

One thing you need to understand is that your problems are not actually the real problem. It's when you are uneasy and self conscious about them that things you run into problems.

I read an article recently by my good buddy Thundercat that said:

This is an inner game mindset but also explores the importance of being the dominant sexual force and leading from the first moment. Basically I have cut and pasted a few things of mine together so it may not read perfectly but you’ll get the idea.

I've got a question for ya... Do you know how far the average man gets with a woman? Not far at all.

What prevents men from being successful with women?

Well, the list goes on and on... but one of the elements that TOPS the list is FEAR.

As human beings, we all move towards that which is familiar. It’s a natural instinct to seek out familiar things because we are comfortable with them – be they people, places, or things. The same is true of feelings.

I've got a question for you: Do women enjoy being hit on - or do they loathe it? If YOU know in your heart-of-hearts women enjoy it - maybe even love it - you're well on your way to experiencing massive success with da ladies.

Let me mention a few names and you can tell me what they all have in common:

- Al Pacino
- Humphrey Bogart
- Napoleon

As part of my research for a guide to style, I put together a focus group of 6 randomly chosen hot, single women between 21 and 33, to find out what styles in men they considered hot.

My goal was to find the things that they all agreed on.

Are you a guy with a high-pitched voice? Of maybe you've got a face only a mother could love?

Well, whatever it is, if you're worried and upset about your physical flaws, which prevent you from attracting women, then I've got some good news for you.

You know what I love most about supermodels?

They are INSANE.

Seriously, what else would you call it when one of the world’s most beautiful women obsesses about some perceived physical flaw?

Standing at the magazine rack thumbing through Cosmo, she has the most gorgeous face you've ever seen. Her hair is silky brown. Her skin looks so radiant and so incredibly soft. You would be on top of the world if you could pick her this girl up.

You feel the fear deep in your gut.

You know what, on average, people are most afraid of?  It’s not death.  It’s public speaking.  As Seinfeld once said, most people would rather be in the coffin than giving the eulogy.

That doesn’t make much sense, does it?

By now you should be getting used to humans not making much sense.