One thing you need to
understand is that your problems are not actually the real problem. It's when
you are uneasy and self conscious about them that things you run into problems.
You know what I love most
about supermodels?
They’re crazy!
Honestly, what else would you call it when one of the world's most beautiful
women is consumed about some perceived physical flaw?
That's right, it's so well known it's axiomatic, few people worry more about
their appearance than those who have the least to worry about.
Regardless, if your body was worth $3.5 million in endorsements, you'd worry
too.
But that's not the point. Beautiful ladies have been worrying about their looks
since well before their first feature ad. Before they knew they'd make their
money by wearing lingerie. Most attractive women have worried about their
appearance since, well, they got their first mirror.
I have a friend who once dated an complete
knockout, but she was so concerned about her feet and obsessed in such an
annoying way that it contributed to their breakup.
Think about that.
Although, then your greatest asset is your looks, it's natural to pay it too
much attention, for good and bad.
But that's not the real story. The point is, everyone is embarrassed about something.
Occasionally even our greatest strengths.
So now, one time only, take out your hanky and group-hug all the rest of the
world in the knowledge that you're not perfect. And you never will be. Even
Brad Pitt and Tom Cruise have problems. Particularly Tom.
The fact is, your problems are not the problem. It's when you are nervous and insecure
about them that things go incorrectly.
I know shockingly ugly guys who are great with the girls. There are guys who
can't tie their own shoes, yet get their pick of ladies. How come?
They have confidence. And that my friends is extremely sexy. As a matter of
fact, it's probably the most attractive attribute any man can have. It can
trump any and every flaw you have.
