My Friends Ditched Me Opener
This works good whenever you're out somewhere by yourself. Basically, you approach your target or a group, and say:
"Hey guys, you won't believe this. All week, me and my friends have
been planning on going out and having a good time, because we've all
been busy and we wanted to blow off some steam. So we made plans to go
out tonight, right? Well, one by one they call me up and say stuff like
"I'm too tired," or "My girlfriend wants to watch a movie," and stuff
like that. Some friends huh? Bunch of lame-o's. But I'm thinking there
might be something more to this, because last week two of my friends
had a knock-down drag out fight over some girl they both like, so the
situation is all weird. Do you guys have any friends who got split up
by someone they both liked?"
Using this, you set the stage
that you're out by yourself because, well, unlike your friends, YOU'RE
not lame! Not only that, you throw in a nice Drama Opener in there to
engage the group.
If you don't know what a Drama Opener is, check it out in my book The Art of Approaching.
Thundercat
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