Attract Women, Pick Up Women, How to get a Girlfriend

There are a plethora of mistakes a guy can make when he's picking up women or out with a girl for the first time. Let’s jump right in and I'll address one of the most common mistakes: seating. Have you ever had this problem:

So you’ve put this off long enough – you’ve decided to make a change in your life.

You’re going to be good with women.  But where do you start?

So you want to learn phone game huh?  Well, the secret to making a successful first phone call is...don't.

Taught a few hundred guys by now just from meeting guys through PAIR and in workshops recently, and this is the shit that ups their game instantly with no tactics or anything. I see this shit ALL THE TIME. It's the BIGGEST and most COMMON problem I see after everyone I've met. This is some of the main shit I focus on fixing when I'm in the field.

You ask, "Would you like to kiss me?

If she says yes, kiss her.

Most men will find that getting a woman’s phone number is an arduous task. They will not know when to ask, for example, or be fearful of risking rejection. Even after having got a girl’s number it can be difficult converting this into a second meeting or date.

I prefer going in alone. When you go in with your wing, you smack of all the others who did that.

Let me take a moment to explain two ways of going in; the BAD WAY and then the GOOD WAY.

Ok we are going to play a game now called bin / marry / shag.

Words themselves have little to do with seduction. It's possible to come up with the most elaborate and impressive chat up lines and do little more than entertain a woman.

When seducing women, most men will make the key mistake of ‘giving away’ all of their power and status in the face of a beautiful woman.

I'm going to reveal an important comfort-building technique I call "Boyfriending." In a nutshell, there's something you can do that's usually done ONLY by a woman's boyfriend.

I want to share with you a powerful method for generating ATTRACTION; a method women naturally use on men. But before I do I am going to share a personal tale that takes a lurid look at the collective male ego’s pathetic attempt to buoy above water when it comes to attracting women.

This week I'm going to do something a little bit unusual...

Let me start off by telling you something interesting:

I've personally stopped focusing on just getting phone numbers. I've found that EMAIL addresses are far better (I still get the phone number too, of course).

Well, you sound like you might be more than just another pretty face. Something tells me that you’re probably getting about 50 emails a day from loser guys saying things like “Hi, I’m freshly divorced from my seventh wife, have 5 delinquent kids… but the good news is that I have a good chance at finally getting a job…” etc.

You know the scenario. You start dating a woman. After the first date, all you get is a peck on the cheek.

Second date, you get a mouth kiss. Third date, you hold hands. It's a very slow process.

Having gone out with with literally thousands of women and gone to bed with hundreds over the past two and a half decades, I've learned that there's nothing you can do to GUARANTEE having sex with any particular woman.

Walk up to a girl and say, "Do you believe in ESP?" Remember to SMILE or you may startle her.

"Just think of the first # that pops into your head from one to four. Don’t say it. Just think it ...

now take that # and imagine that it is drawn on a blackboard in your head. Have you done that?"