Power
When seducing women, most men will make the key mistake of ‘giving
away’ all of their power and status in the face of a beautiful woman.
They will chase her, change their schedules to accommodate her,
abandon friends and hobbies. In short, they focus all of their
attention on the girl and the more attractive she is, the more they
will tend to do this.
Women are frustrated at being
expected to lead proceedings and having men practically offer
themselves to them. A challenge is well received as is a man who has
more in his life than just making her the centre of his world. Feminine
women crave masculine men but the prerequisites of the ‘modern, metro’
man don’t trigger the basic attraction switches women desire.
Lead The Way
“Can
I have your number?”, “Are you free Friday? No? How about Saturday?
Sunday?”, “What do you want to do?”, “Where do you want to eat?” All
these questions frequently asked before a first date rapidly give the
power of decision making to the woman. Instead take charge of
proceedings- you’ll be surprised by how readily a woman will follow
your lead: “I’m hungry, let’s go get something to eat”, “We should hang
out sometime, give me your number”, “I want to see that new film, want
to come?” This is a way to lead in a polite way that allows her the
opportunity to join in your fun life.
Have Other Passions
Having
hobbies and interests and most importantly, other people in your life
to busy yourself with, makes it more difficult to lose yourself in
trying to impress a beautiful woman- meanwhile making you all the more
attractive.
Have Purpose
Have aspirations in
life - people who give up on living life to fulfil themselves are not
attractive. Decisive people on a mission are attractive. Be that man.
High Status
In
every interaction there is a status relationship. The person with the
highest status is the leader, decision maker and one that initiates and
ends interactions according to their own schedules. Most commonly in
our society, these are beautiful women- so steal that frame and become
more attractive to women.
Be Yourself
When a
woman criticises an aspect of your being - your taste in music, fashion
sense, haircut - be sure to take heed of any constructive advice but do
not change your whole life trying to gain her approval. Make changes
that would benefit you. If not, then do not change on her whim - a
woman will bore quickly of any man that tries (in vain) to fulfil her
every desire by agreeing to everything she says. She enjoys the battle
itself of trying to tame you and change you- don’t take that away from
her!
Though these suggestions seem difficult to implement,
once habitual, you will find yourself at an advantage to 99% of men out
there.
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Richard La Ruina
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