So
you want to learn phone game huh?Well,
the secret to making a successful first phone call is...don't.
More
relationships have failed to go anywhere due to uncomfortable first calls than
for almost any other reason. Unless you've got a voice like a singer, and not
to mention the confidence, I'd say save the chit-chat for a face-to-face
conversation. In its place, use a text message. It's cheap (if you have an
unlimited plan) and you can send the same message to multiple people, which is
efficient. If you get four numbers in the course of your day (1 at the coffee
shop,1 at the gas mall, 1 at the grocery store and 1 in the movie theater wait
until after work, about rush-hour and send out the same message to all four:
•
Hi, babe. Nice running into you today. When can we grab that drink?
The
majority girls will get back to you. Here is your opportunity to change your
dating reality and act with male authority. In this particular case, it's not
about what the woman wants. She will tell you if her plans conflict. It is here
where you display that you are a man of action and that you lay out plans with
authority:
•
I know a cute little joint at Fourth and Main. Let's meet there at 8 PM tomorrow
night. The place is called Tommys.
Remember
to choose a different night for each girl. Bingo, you've lined up dates for the
whole week! Expect a percentage of cancellations and reschedules, but most
likely, the women will make every effort to connect with you. It's been a while
since a confident, decisive and therefore sexy man has entered their life.
They're not about to let you get away.
