How to Attract Girls Even if You're Short
Let me mention a few names and you can tell me what they all have in common:
- Al Pacino
- Humphrey Bogart
- Napoleon
Okay, no surprise here... they're all short guys. But you know what?
They were all awesome with the ladies (and not just because of their
celebrity status... they were all players before they became famous.)
In fact, the reason they could attract girls was because of their strong inner attitude.
There are a couple things you can do in the short term. Wearing boots right now will subtly add 2 or 3 inches to your height.
Also, when you dress, wear vertical stripes and tight clothes.
That will make you look SLENDER, which will make you appear taller.
Long term, one way short guys can be more dominant physically
is to work out. In fact that really should be first and foremost. If
you've got muscles, it helps A LOT, not only with your physical
appearance, but also with your confidence levels, strong inner
attitude, and poise. So get in the gym.
When you're muscular and you're a short guy, you become like a
pit bull. And by the way, I'd like you to experiment with that.. do not
always be the nice guy who's polite. For the next few months, try to
let your "inner badass" come out a bit when you're with girls.
Do the affirmation, "I'm becoming like the pitbull who can dominate the bigger dogs."
Once you start feeling more and more confident in a few weeks,
change your affirmation to, "I AM like the pitbull who can dominate
bigger dogs."
I've noticed that a lot of short guys develop a VERY strong presence by having cultivated that inner badass.
Now, I'm not saying you should become a jerk... but just try to balance out that inner nice guy.
Next thing to do long term is to GIVE UP any approval-seeking.
Who cares what women think of you? Go through life doing what you want
and being who you are. (That is so key by the way... those guys I list
above were players exactly because they went through life doing what
they wanted and being true to who they were.)
You see, short guys who are badasses really have a bit of an
advantage. Because of their stature, they automatically are able to
have more rapport with chicks (who tend to be short themselves) than
the guys who are beanpoles. And when you add to that a bit of a
"badboy" element, it makes chicks dripping wet with attraction.
The bottom line is this: only if YOU feel uncomfortable with
your height will it affect you with the girls. If you feel completely
comfortable with your height, then they will too.
By the way, when it comes to tall guys, what women find
attractive about them isn't their height. It's their dominance. If you
have a tight sense of inner confidence, and project a personality that
sucks them in, height will be the furthest thing from their minds.
So to sum up, be true to yourself, take risks in life,
cultivate your inner badass, and stop caring about anyone's approval.
And hit the gym ASAP. And do the fashion things I said.
Then you'll attract girls without worrying about irrelevant things like height.
John
Alexander is author of How to Become an
Alpha Male , a girl-attracting success system that will have you easily
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